I bet your H didn't fight the affair for very long did he? It looks like he put two months into his marriage and then ran away...
Sorry, but BOTH of you didn't grow up and ended up escaping into sex instead...
Escapes don't solve life's problems... they just make them WORSE. Escapes distract you, time aggravates these untended to problems...
This is what an affair does... you escape to get away from your problems, they get worse and worse... they don't go away...
Your husband HAD a CHANCE to learn something and grow and he blew it... his loss... Two months is NOT enough time to fight wayward spouses... and certainly not long enough to deal with a WS having an affair...
His new rel has been running for what.. ten months now?
It's all in the open and no one's lying or keeping any secrets?
What's the maturity level of OW here?
Is there a divorce on OW's end there too? Do they BOTH have kids from previous marriages?
I am wondering if OW would be willing or have the courage to step aside if you spoke to her?
