feel like giving up - pt 2

[luvless]

Thanks Gard - hard to relax when the dreaded attorney call is at any moment ya know? I just got off a call and he wants me to agree to a temporary order of support which I think is low. Mr. Luv told my older son he closed the american express account today - bad move that is not good for his credit but not my problem anymore huh? He should have called me I would have advised him otherwise.

He gave our older son the sad story that he doesn't have the money to pay it. My son told him, "well dad that is what divorce does." Older son told him dad we have no money to go to the market and stbxH said, "I'll try and get you some money."

I'm thinking about talking to another L for a second opinion. I wonder though because the numbers are pretty strict here in CA. They go by a schedule and they don't really waiver much.

I'm pissed about all of this...such a waste. We should be planning for our daughter's graduation and 18th birthday but we are planning a Divorce! ick! to the tenth power!

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