The book is completely obviously written with both men and women's POV. It is a cycle--men need respect, women need love.
But the book also says to break the cycle takes only one person.
Which person? The one with the most maturity.
I'm going to have to put that one next in line, then. I haven't read it. I was so mad at H's interpretation of it that I would have much rather chucked it at his head.
Quote:
MLC…is not for the faint of heart that is for sure…
I hope as you learn more, you will understand a little more the early posts you received…
Yeah...ummmm...
I went through the earlier posts. It's amazing how the sound of H's hateful tone from the night before can temper almost everything you hear/read. I did what someone suggested & turned off the mean voice in my head and reread them.
Oh.
Dear.
I can see how they were not meant with the animosity I'd read into them.
Mach, I do apologize for the flaming come back. It was not warranted.
fwiw--it was a good lesson to check the emotion-adding filter in my brain at the door before I interact with H anymore. The last thing I need to do is make mountains out of molehills. Especially when there are so many other mountains to deal with.
Speaking of emotions...I haven't cried this much since the night he left. I understood the reality three weeks ago. I've just realized the levity of that reality.
Marked, I think I'm going to need a little schooling myself. Thank you for the link.
formerly known as "shelbel" Me 40, stbxh 40 DSs 9, 7 & 3 M9, T10 Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.
