Don't tell her so many "details" and do make it sound more vague and mysterous. However, don't go overboard and be too obvious!

Quote:
"It's not at date, I'm not dating. I'm married."


She called it a date. Why didn't you just leave it at that instead of correcting her? When you "reminded" her that you were still M......you killed it right there. Do you see what I mean? Yes, you are M and if you don't think you should date then don't date......but is it necessary to discuss it with her? Are you thinking she has forgotten? Not only were you no longer looking unavailable and attractive after that remark, but you took all the mystery out of it and let her know that you are still waiting on her with your tongue hanging out. I can almost see the smug smile on her face now.



Last edited by sandi2; 05/12/10 10:05 PM.
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