Piano, Good Luck at the doc appt. I realize now that when H came to the doc appt with me last week, i never looked at his face when they listened to the heart beat... I wanted to... I bring my blackberry with me and record the heart beat... I cant say H had never heard it before bc I did send it to his phone... but i like being able to hear his heartbeat when I am home... definitely a pick-me-upper!
Do let him know that he can stay at your mom's house... you offer, and the rest is in his hands. I once told H, you need to learn to comminicate and fight for the role you wish to be in this baby's life... maybe you should do the same.