The only diff I think between women and men as walkaways is that men are better compartmentalisers and also feel much less guilt about leaving their families and the destruction they cause when they have an affair.
I agree... I think women tend to be more sensitive and think what if... guys instead learn to hide the hurt and make excuses for their actions... none of which make sense! Men tend to convince themselves it is what is best... while Women tend to think and analyze and feel guilty. But it certainly doesnt mean there are W's out there who dont do the same as men do, and H's who think with their hearts as well as their heads...
Who knows!
But NM, go buy the secret or at least visit their site and read their inspirational stories! It will uplift your spirits!