I don't often post to women because I cannot relate, your way of thinking is...
strange to me.
For example.
My wife...a 30 minute story to tell me that her new shoes got dirty.
Me?
A sentence...filled with cursing.
: )
That is partially true. I tend not to because I know I am rough and blunt and not many guys like it. I am not soft and friendly. I do not like making people feel worse, but I do like helping people think for themselves.
To me, it seems like women (not all) want a shoulder to cry on and for someone to tell them, its ok.
And, I see the need and help of crying, but I'd rather have the shoulder to help me stand as I move forward...crying or not. Down the road HAS GOT to be better than the crappy place that makes you cry and if it isn't down the road further has to.
: )
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK