Well here's mine

[Barkley]

[quote=robx]did she always lock her phone or is this a new development?
why does she feel the need to lock her phone?
why does she feel the need to hide the contents on her phone?

Her attitude about being "so done!" is also a sign,
when the mental scorecard comes out and the WAS starts listing every grievance, a storm is brewing. They're usually not letting you know because they want you to fix things, they're usually letting you know as in why you're being "fired" from your job as husband.

Also be careful about her crap behavior and attitude and jumping through every hoop to make her happy and pulling "double duty" at home when you don't see her reciprocating, that's a formula for disrespect brewing. It communicates that she can complain and bully you around and you will submit to her will because you fear losing her and when a person knows this especially in the state that your wife appears to be in, they'll use that power and start taking advantage of the situation.

A healthy relationship is about reciprocation,
nobody will do everything for no reward forever,
how has she been reciprocating good behavior to you lately?
Has it been one sided? Is she angry because it feels like it was one sided for her for many years, if so, two wrongs don't make a right.


I think this is a big part of it in her mind