LOL! Me too! And actually, there's a lot about your description of your H that is eerily close to mine too! What you just said about your H's sense of humor being one of the things that attracted you to him was same in my sitch too!
Anyways I hope you find the book helpful. They've got a workbook to go with it too, but I've been finding just a plain old notepad is sufficient. Take care Time!
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.