He says if i say anything about him smoking pot he is going to bring up my past. i have been clean and sober for over 7 years but i had a couple slip ups. But I went to counseling each time and got myself back on track. I can take a drug test and be clean, but i am worried that if they tell him he has to take a drug test he will simply detox himself with that one drink and have a clean test. He doesnt think he has a problem that he should be allowed to smoke pot if he wants to. its just like having a drink
Me30 H38 D6 Married for 7 years Relationship before marriage 3 years Husband is sending me on the biggest rollercoaster in the world.