Understood. If W is living in the past and only remembers the bad times or hangs on to those memories that prevent her from seeing how good things are currently then it won't be as hard for her.
I know that it is that much harder to DB once the WAS has moved out, I know I cannot control that decision but I hope to influence her enough not to go.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10