W still wants separation, need to DB more

[TrentC]

I mean when she does finally get it up to move out. Then, let her go. She has to try the world on her own. You do a lot for her. Life on one's own is a struggle. She may decide she had it better before. Then again, she may learn to fly on her own, or she may have some dream man in hiding. Time will tell. Unfortunately, nothing else will.

I think Lotus is right here.

One of the myths of getting divorced is that once the LBS is gone, the WAS's life will magically get "better". It won't.