You are absolutely right. I am doing exactly what you said... In fact, he's txt'd me twice this afternoon, more spew re: not going on my business trip this week. Complete ignore.
And, the strength, character and attitude took a long dam* time. But, we're there! I just hope it stays intact during all of this.
Don't even sweat it, who cares how long it took as long as you achieved it and let's be honest, a lot of this may still be scary, uneasy, emotional because it's all unknown but that's ok, you're a strong woman, I'm confident you can handle it.
(and not that you have to worry about how he feels but I'll tell you, your husband has had so much control of this situation for the longest amount of time and this will all be scary for him too, I don't care what act he puts on or how big a grin he tries to display, he's "human" for the most part and the unknown will be scary for him as well)
