Ok, It's confirmed. Going there to collect my things on Saturday. It feels liberating but I know I need to be prepared for whatever she's got there waiting for me. i.e. shouting, having OM there with her, remarks of the BF or even complete indifference (which at this point I'd appreciate) , etc
I'm thinking it's best to send the note to her parents AFTER I move my stuff out.
About the joint account she said she'll let me know later.
Relief.
You know if you clear out all of the funds in the joint bank account, you can usually close it by yourself, the bank usually doesn't require both people to be there to close the account. Just an FYI, call them and verify and then you'll know and that's another thing you can take care of by yourself.
