here i thought h did so much damage to our r.
i have equally done as much damage to our r.

i do have much to think about. now what?

This WAS a pivitol moment for me in my sitch. I know you can't go on "just the LLs", because there is MUCH more involved.

But if you can see you share responsibility in one area, you may be willing to look in others and examine those as well.

Be strong and hold the mirror up. Yes, it is ugly. But it is also very, very important. It will inspire your actions.