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[pigskin]

Anyway, I will try to rectify my talk with her tonight and clear some things up about our M or the future with or without it. I still find myself trying to be the nice guy, but I know that isn't the way to go. Respectful, yes. As Coach has been so kind to remind me numerous times, strong, confident, and be a leader.

Mind you, you don't have to say it through clenched teeth. After all, you are just explaining to her what you have decided for yourself. Every marriage that has gotten to the point yours has ends up reconciled or dissolved in the long run. You are just trying to get rid of the nasty middleman, limbo.