If you are not being an a$$, or rude, or saying things to make her feel guilty, you won't push her away.
I am not being an a$$, or rude. During our last discussion, I did reveal some things to her that I had not told her before. I had received two phone calls, one in Oct. and one in Dec. from two different people saying they were teachers at the school and did I know what was going on with my wife and the super. W, of course, had an explanation for both calls. I asked her, even if they were pranks or whatever, why would they bring up you and him? She said something that didn't make sense and I reiterated that it wasn't just me who thought something was going on. Maybe she saw that as an attempt to make her feel guilty. Maybe it was. I won't do that anymore. All has been said that needs to be about OM. She still swears there is nothing going on and I know I can't make her see things differently at the moment.
Anyway, I will try to rectify my talk with her tonight and clear some things up about our M or the future with or without it. I still find myself trying to be the nice guy, but I know that isn't the way to go. Respectful, yes. As Coach has been so kind to remind me numerous times, strong, confident, and be a leader.
