Mila...am sure you are right aobut never being able to understand what they do!
SA-I like your analogy about where to place your feet during the dance!!! I also thought about H "forgetting" or blocking out the possibility of us having to move.
Thanks M&H...I agree that the kids are old enough to call their Dad without my encouragement.
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Hi, CW- so no set visitation schedule yet? At least your H admitted he dropped the ball on Saturday. I guess your kids are old enough to let their actions and words show their hurt if your H keeps flaking out on them. He will get the picture, eh?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Hi NM...no, you can't get your H to leave and I can't get mine to stay on the phone with me for more than 5 mins unless we are talkiing about the weather!!!! lol! Hope to get something set soon!
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CW I doubt that you would want your H to be hanging around right now, correct? The ALIEN version of your H, that is!
I see that your H is hard to get hold of. Sorry to hear he is being so flaky with the visitation. I'll drop the subject now! You will let us know.
HOw are you holding up otherwise?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Was on my way out of town to come to work and see a little SUV with the same county plates as where my H lives and see the person in the passenger seat looking away and realize it is my H with OW....so stupid!
I had left a message on H's phone telling him that his ins. papers came and would leave them in the garage for him so expected him to come but didn't think he'd "hide"...assume it was because he was with OW...whatever...
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OP-Who knows? I had asked him after the first time he brought OW to the house to not bring her there again and that was before he filed for a D...not that I think it is ok to bring her now...still don't like her at my house...maybe that is why he was hiding...
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