Hi Antlers, There is a newbie in newcomers that I think could benefit from your experience. her name is fudwoman.
I know you are in the midst of a lot of high tension issues and that time & mental/emotional energy may be at a premium, but I know if someone has been there, done that in making changes from 'angry' to 'at peace', and can have compassion for where she is at right now in growing & working on her R, it's you.
Thanks for whatever you can do. Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.