And sometimes you have to love them enough to know what is best for them when they don't...something to think about...
Yes, it was tough with my youngest D...I cried at the thought that she might move...even told H if it came to that he might need to move out for a while and work on his relationship with her...losing my children was never part of the deal for me...but she eventually came around when she saw that H was really was "back"
I know you have a sensitive situation...but why file for divorce if he doesn't? And do you really think he wants to be female? That is a much bigger issue then cdg!
