I hope your STBXH will stop the spew but don't hold out hope. You've rocked his world and he is not in control. He doesn't do that well.
I would agree with that 100% and I would ignore his texts completely, don't bother replying to any of them, I think it would do him some good to squirm. He didn't value you or the relationship he had with you, and you DB'd your a$$ off literally (ok the diet and exercise may have helped a bit too).
