Agreed from the other side of the fence with sandi. I, as a LBS did not communicate my feelings, but (x)W was always assertive of hers and so wanted more from me.
Conversely, I think it does kind of play into the scheme of things.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11