Need Help with Husband's MLC

[JeanBean]

Wow, thanks so much for all of that - and yes it is all taken with love! I think when you are a really busy person running around in circles alot and being responsible you forget how to have fun and than beside kids - you have your husband who treats you like the enemy and you don't feel much like being cheerful and more like crying. It is really hard.

I guess too since he stopped helping with everything - I do the driving for everyone, everything & anything to do with the kids, all of the grocery shopping & cooking, housework, laundry, balance the checkbook, anything related to bills, and work full-time for the government, and I really think my 3 year old has ADHD too because he is pretty busy and "difficult" so most of the time I am really exhausted.

I am stressed alot and have to make myself calm down. Basically when my ADHD is in swing I can't retain information and I am listening but can't "absorb" it, my brain is all over the place and I have to rein it in and really focus and even if i do get it to focus - I don't remember alot of what is said in the conversation - I don't know the details and my husband is a very detail oriented person and remembers everything so I seem like an air head.

Needless to say I really stink with arguements because I can't remember what was said and it seems like I don't care when I really do. :o(