Thank you everyone for your well wishes.

I had the meeting w/my NEW attorney. He is awesome. He knows how to clean up messes!!! And, a huge surprise... my very best male friend guaranteed my bill up to the retainer amount, so I don't have to give him a retainer! (Everything from old attorney is being transferred immediately.)

We are not making a decision on filing until I see a tax attorney (that my new D attorney set me up with) on Friday. It could be a detriment, based on some IRS issues... They may want to do something else first. Also, if H files first, I can ask for more attorney fees coverage.

I've decided I'm choosing to through this w/comfort and security in my attorney handling the process correctly. No fear. No reactionary behaviors.

I guess I'd better get to work!


Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.