help some advice plse..have i finished it for good

[JacT]

Lin,
I dont know what to say..incredible as I continue to hear more of you story, doesnt seem enough and I truly believe you dont think of it as anything special, its what a wife who really loved their husband would do...I mean really love.Thank you for sharing this with me.I am shedding a tear as I read your story.
My D's want me to divorce my H and move on.They gave said they will move out if he moves back.This shows again the role you played was not only totally selfless, it was a sitch where love was your glue and your children seeing this no doubt thought if mum can do it we can..
I am not sure if I am strong enough for this at the mo.People always tell me I am a strong woman but I dont feel strong right now.I dont doubt That I love my H but the sitch is difficult and I also have to think what is right for the girls.I have to accept my H may eventually want to change his gender(I dont think it will come to this, the fog and confusion, the depression all playing a part)but I have to think worst case scenario..and through trying to understand the thoughts he put on paper.
Your words have helped give me a sense of persective on rejection and I already said in an earlier post..I may have to accept that he has found love elsewhere in which case letting him go is the answer, to be happy because I love him..I find this approach easier...I wish more people would look at their marriages and the vows that are part,in the way you do..there is just not enough of you in this world because it would be a much better place if there was.God Bless.