W still wants separation, need to DB more

[OfficerInNeed]

I mean when she does finally get it up to move out. Then, let her go. She has to try the world on her own. You do a lot for her. Life on one's own is a struggle. She may decide she had it better before. Then again, she may learn to fly on her own, or she may have some dream man in hiding. Time will tell. Unfortunately, nothing else will.

I am DBing my butt off in hopes that day does not come. She has a strong mind and family backing that she will be just fine on her own. Quite technically she would be moving in with her dad, or living in the apartment right up the stairs form him. At this point I put nothing past her, I use to when this all started thinking "she could never do that" but I learned that she is a changed person.

My intentions were not to "snoop" it just happened. I laid all the nonsense that was going on a little over a month ago to rest, knowing I had to trust her and just let it go if we were to move forward, and then I come across/witness these searches...raised my suspicion.