still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

Thanks Whatnow! You sure know your law of attraction don't you?? OK I revised it (changes are in red):

WHat I want: WH to pursue me instead of divorce me.

How will I know he is doing this:

-He will be asking me questions about where I am going or what I am doing and I will be having fun finding new friends and activities
-I will see him looking at my body and feeling attracted to me again-He will try to talk to me because he enjoys my attention, personality, and warmth. I am his true best friend. and hang around the house because it is inviting and relaxing
-He may try to do favors or buy me or S things (stuff we might need at the store)
-He will drop discussion of divorce/paperwork


To "segment intend," I am to visualize him doing those behaviors and then look back on what I "did" to get him to act that way. SO here is what I will be doing



My actions that will draw WH to me:

-I keep losing weight and my body gets sexier every day
-I am tan (lol!) and have nice hair and makeup
-I am busy making plans- when we exchange S, I am dressed to go somewhere, and I initiate conversation about coordinating timing on the drop offs so that I am home in time
-I stick to the limited contact conversation and continue to find ways to limit his time at the house
-I only initiate contact with him if it is about the schedule
-I continue to take care of the garbage, get his mail, and avoid asking for help with things around the house. He will have to find the stuff to do which will show that he is LOOKING for reasons to want to be at the house.

I feel so good today! Of course I am betting that he won't be bringing up paperwork today....but I guess if he does, I can still go through with this plan until the end, right? lol!