My H and I have been separated 3 months due to his EAs during what definitely appears to be a MLC. (I asked him to move out.) I have recently gone dark as it appears he is still having suspicious activity on his cell phone (though Im no longer monitoring it). How should I respond when he offers to come to the house to do yard work, car work, etc? Is it ok to accept? Sometimes only? Thanks.


M--14 years
T--20 years, HS sweethearts
dday #1--2002 EA
dday #2--2005 bar sl*t
dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what
Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years