Lost, confused and fighting for my marriage

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Well, now it looks like all my research for seminars/workshops yesterday was for nothing. I hardly found any that weren't religious based or that didn't cost a fortune.

But, turn of events...my H e-mailed me last night and said that he is now sure that he wants a divorce. He said he no longer has any feelings for me, other than physical attraction. He feels like we rushed into marriage and having been paying for that mistake ever since. He called a lawyer today and started gathering information on what we do next.

I can't even wrap my brain around the fact that this is really happening, let alone figure out any of the legal stuff or where to go from here. I'm more lost and confused than ever.