And thank you to everyone for chiming in, whether it was warm & fuzzy or bitey but real. I do take them to heart, whether I like the way it's worded or not.

I'm not intentionally ignoring anyone's posts or questions...you guys just go really fast.

Not that I'm complaining...keep it coming. I'm pretty sure I can handle it now.

formerly known as "shelbel"
Me 40, stbxh 40
DSs 9, 7 & 3
M9, T10
Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.