but I will NOT be the pathetic ex- always taking whatever crumbs STBXW has to offer. I did that for the last three years of the marriage and the first several months of the separation.
^^^ THIS! I hear you...I did the same.
Read the long post by RobX I quoted in my thread. Don't be her plan B.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again