tbart,

I've been following you thread. I'm not sure what the best thing for you to do as far as moving out. It seems like the advice given by people here is to remain in your house. I understand if you think that you need time away for yourself.

I wanted to make a comment about what your W told you that she hasn't had time to think about the two of you yet. I don't buy that at all. I think she's just telling you this so that you don't smother her wanting to talk more about your M. I think this is her way of giving herself space so that you're not breathing down her neck about it. I would have to believe that she has been thinking about the M. I know the LBS thinks about the M a lot and I think the WAS also thinks about the M more than they lead on or want you to know. Just my 2 cents.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch