Is your husband, with REAL proof on your part abusing substances right now? If he is currently I fully agree with Fig.
Yeah I know Fig...2012 gets closer all the time : )
PS Eric asked some really good questions: What are you doing for you? Hobbies and such?
What did you used to enjoy, what did you give up to be a wife that you enjoyed and could get back into...dating is NOT one of them we advocate here BTW : )
That Bitchiness? Use it, focus that inward to steel yourself. Refine yourself in this hellfire. Iron becomes steel and you will become a stronger women for this.
And that...
That is attractive. Confidence.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK