Shel,

Is your husband, with REAL proof on your part abusing substances right now? If he is currently I fully agree with Fig.

Yeah I know Fig...2012 gets closer all the time : )

PS Eric asked some really good questions: What are you doing for you? Hobbies and such?

What did you used to enjoy, what did you give up to be a wife that you enjoyed and could get back into...dating is NOT one of them we advocate here BTW : )

That Bitchiness? Use it, focus that inward to steel yourself. Refine yourself in this hellfire. Iron becomes steel and you will become a stronger women for this.

And that...


That is attractive. Confidence.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet