Mom is doing as well as she can. She is a very active person, Ntl tres for Ntl Garden Club of US, travels all over Us and is actually w a bunch of ladies in Atlanta,Ga right now. She is tough and has a lot of support from my 3 Sister and myself.
As for W and I, we are completely seperated. She has her apt and all her own bills and I haven't and won't help out. She has depleted her 401k to almost 0 and is always behind the 8 ball by the end of the month. She just got a raise and a bonus at work so now she'll be able to sustain herself for 3 months longer. She is extremely happy where she is right now and doesn't have the desire to try on M, 'yet'.
As for the kids she keeps saying the kids will be fine they are resilient and a lot of kids go through this and are just fine. I come back with those aren't my kids and my D is already seeing a IC at 5 yrs old. W is all about what the rest of the world is doing. Everyone has debt and $10k credit card bills, its the way it is. Thats not me, if I want something I save for it and don't need debt to make me like the rest of the people out there. She changes her mind like most people change their socks.
I know she is dis-illusioned right now but I just don't know how much more I can take. My friend and his W went to the comedy show and saw my W and OM. They were in a ballcony seat and were being really friendly w/ each other. No kissing but lot of hand holding, leg and back rubbing, mostly by the OM. W says nothing sexual has happened but come on, I'm a guy and I know what guys are after.
Just got our S papers signed and notarized this am. We have a MC session tomorrow. I'm at the point now where I could easily change S papers to D papers w/out much thought and be done...but I have to wait and give her some time...its 'only' been 4 months since W moved out.
I have been on one date and planned another one for Sunday, after I get done cutting wood for the weekend with a bunch of friends at our hunting camp.
