6 MONTHS IN AND FEELING A WOBBLE........

[lalxx]

Hello all,
I have come home to an e-mail from my husband - a cold hard e-mail in which he outlines my choices to me. Unless I take up his offer to divorce him on the grounds of his adultery or unreasonable behaviour by 10am on Monday he will start proceedings against me to divorce me on the grounds of my unreasonable behaviour.

After he left last year we talked through remaining seperated and then 'knowing when the time was right to divorce'

I feel absolutley floored by this e-mail - he sent me an e-mail on March 23rd telling to expect a letter after Easter, the solicitors letter arrived at the end of April, I have had a weekend of hideous e-mails from him a couple of weeks ago - spewing rewritten history and telling me to get real that we were divorcing etc etc etc. I ignored the solicitors letter and his e-mails but told him that I didn't want a divorce during one telephone conversation we had.

I cannot understand why he wants to accelerate a divorce - my guess is that it's mainly financial as he is still livings way beyond his means and has his eyes on the equity in our home.

I simply cannot afford a solicitor at the moment - every penny I have goes on maintaining the children and their home currently.

I feel sick at the moment but plan on taking a bit of time before deciding what to do next.

I don't plan on talking to him about the e-mail and I don't plan on stopping being in NC or GAL!

Any ideas from anyone?

lalxx