I will never give up on myself! This journey is no longer about saving my M - it is about finding out who I am and becoming the man that I have always dreamed about.
Do I love my W - Yes Can I help her - NO Can I help myself - ABSOLUTELY Do I hope my wife finds her way - Yes
Mila - my sitch is pretty complicated. W has decided or her L has decided for her to go after EVERYTHING. Am I angry? Yep but I do own my role in this. The hard part is how this will impact my kids. They are really the victims in all of this. Maybe I have finally come to a place of acceptance or maybe just maybe I am begining to accept that I cannot change or control another - I can only be ME...the Best ME and leave the rest to God.
Hopefully that answers your question. By the way I have to catch up on your thread. I suspect that you continue to be a pillar of diginity and strength...I'm always impressed by you Mila - always.
Cat - if your still around...."HI"
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans