help some advice plse..have i finished it for good

[JacT]

Lin,I thhink you could still write under psuedo names however I understand your concern.
The cdg is the real issue in all of this because I believe it is key to the MLC and to what the other woman uses to hold onto my H.I cannot compete with her vile,nasty way and I am not as confident as you guys that he would drop her..she did take him in when he needed a home and I belive he is too much of a coward to dump her.The A has tarnished his reputation significantly and I am not sure that he would see leaving her as a positive at the moment.I want to take your advice but I am not sure I have the strength.I think a rejection now would set me back quite a bit and I have to get back to work to provide for my two girls.
You are all right at what you say..but I am not sure he hasnt now fallen out o love.
Yes Lin I believed our love was the enduring lasting forever kinda love but his behaviour doesnt say that and maybe I am wrong about the MLC.i doubt myself so much and my ability to read him now...
Thank you all so much for your comments I need to reflect..
We have my brothers wedding on 1st Jul and H was supposed to be bestman.My b was devestated when he heard the news.It really hrut him too.I dont think he will come back or show any appetite pre wedding.(((hugs)))