Ummm...no. Again addressed earlier in the thread--I'd been in the newcomers forum the entire time I'd been here & only just realized that this is, in fact, what we are dealing with.
I won't bother with anymore of your quotes because, quite frankly, the snarkiness leaves me unable to read them over again.
Shelbel, don't feel badly about anyone's posts. Some are more forceful than others, I wish the forceful people would post on my thread because I really like it when people are up front and brutally honest with me, it helps me be better that much quicker, you know?
The people posting to you on this thread are some of the best out there, and you'll get very good advice. We know that your ego is bruised and battered, and no one means to step on that.
I for one believe that you may just get away with not following through with the D... but only if he forgets it and there is a chance that he may believe it was just said in anger?
If you don't ever bring it up again, or any of your demands, will he remember? Meaning now, in his MLC fog, will he remember?
My H would not, he'd just forget about it having been said, although the feelings of having been hurt would remain with him.