How do I let her go, without avoiding her?

Besides W uploading/sending pictures of/to herself at our wedding, we communicate much better than we had when the EA was just starting out.

This may or may not be normal for a WAW but W always/usually asks my opinion of something or shows me things. We watched TV, movies and laugh together.

Yesterday, W and I were going through an old photo album of W's family. There were even pictures of us/her in the album from when we first started to date.

I want to back off but I don't want to make her feel like I am avoiding her or not interested in what she has to say/does.


You may be right, this could be in her head. As I said, phone logs are clean, co-workers say things are good at work and for now W keeps me informed as to where she is at/going....


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10