[quote=AtTheEnd?]What should I be saying to her sandi2 when she asks why I have faith that this can come back together? She doesn't believe there is hope (or at least admit to it), but I want to at least show that there is hope.
I wouldn't give her the reassurance. In fact, I would do the opposite. I would validate that she feels like there is no hope and the YOU'VE reached the point that you don't want to be with a woman who doesn't want to 100% be with you.
[quote=AtTheEnd?]The strange thing is that she actually seems more upbeat for days after we have one of these conversations.
Why wouldn't she be? You've reassured her, you've proven to her that she still has her hooks into you and that she can continue to string you along and drag this out.
