Please accept mine for the cross posting.

That is the problem with (mine as well) firing off a response quickly.

My snarkiness was in the "jumping to conclusions and working out for you" and I AM sorry.

There are a lot of very good people here Shel, if you can read something two ways..try taking it the way that isn't mean.

We are big on personal growth here.


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