I think this is my home for the next 6 months...

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Shel,

IT is IN the title of your thread.

And the "but" was in reference to this:

But at some point I need to stop being a doormat. For H, I think the *six month* part tells him I'm serious.

NOT:

but although I *know* that, I still feel like he'd be happier if I'd done something differently. I really need to keep working on that.

Jumping to conclussions...

How is that working out for you?

You will need tougher skin to make it through your husbands MLC. Fukc us, and posting here, we don't matter to the out come you want, but he is going to be horrible, and if you cannot toughen up then you are going to take everything personally.