if your husband is drinking and doing drugs I don't think a time line is a horrendous thing
maybe giving yourself the timelinei nstead of laying it out there might have been good but it is out there already
so
you have six months to work on yourself to find out what about you stays with an abussive drug user and why to find out what kind of example you are willing to set for your children
when there is abuse, drug use etc, a timeline isn't controlling or bad a timeline is safety a timeline is a touchstone
I had a timeline when i was in an abussive relationship it was my timeline to safety, when my boys and I would get out
no one's abuse is your fault that is there dealio no one's drug usage is your fault
you have these 6 months now to work on yourself
if you decide to ammend the timeline at that point...you can son't worry about it now
