If he was actually hitting you with being a dick...you'd REALLY know that.
You are an LBS your Husband might be an MLC and if you are unable to deal with a little (miscommunicated) snarkiness then this is not going to easy for you.
Cowgirl up, toughen up, thicker skin.
No one here is trying to make you feel bad, what would the point in that be?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK