So much for actually reading the entire thread. Picking and choosing what you hear has worked well for you?

I have another thing to add to my list of mistakes apparently.

You should be proud. Well done.

formerly known as "shelbel"
Me 40, stbxh 40
DSs 9, 7 & 3
M9, T10
Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.