Buts are asses; Asses are mules (amongst other things). Mules are stubborn. Stubborn can be good, but only if you the to stubborn to lose type. If you are too stubborn to learn...
ehhh...you'd be better wasting your time elsewhere.
Alot of people noticed the 6 months.
: )
Tell you what.
No one here is really a professional marriage councillor.
Not every here saved their marriage.
But almost everyone here is a success.
And when a majority of people say the same thing, it might be in your best interest to REALLY listen...that goes for anything that is said that 'stings' you a little.
For example, if you are thin, and someone calls you fat? That shouldn't sting.
If you are fat and someone calls you fat, but you are ok with your body? That won't sting either, and they are just a jerk.
If you are fat, don't like being fat, and someone calls you fat, it is going to sting. And THEN you need to figure out why...besides them being a jerk...if it bothers you being fat, then do something about it.
6 months...
IS a stupid timeline and unrealistic. There are no guarentees here, none. But I got money on one outcome if you only give this 6 months. : )
Any takers?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
