You know, after my H first left me, I was shocked at how many people were actually getting divorces in my community...seemed everyone was splitting up and having affairs...seemed to be the going thing! Still, its all around me. I hate it. I dont understand it....well, I do, but come on people...get some counseling when its starts to get bad, before its over!

I have a few friends going through the same thing. One inparticualur....she works for me. She has asked her H for counseling for the both of them....he refuses, and says she can leave if she wants to, but he isnt leaving and She IS NOT taking the kids with her! She doesnt know what to do and here I am....trying to go on my own experience to help her. I for one, am NOT good on giving advice...thats why I read alot of threads but I dont give much advice.

Im just saying how much I hate divorce...what it does to the kids. Her son is 11 and is SO VERY ANGRY. Disrespectful, hateful....everyday I see this. He treats his mom the way her H treats her. Yesterday he got here....in a GOOD mood, first question was "are we moving out?". His face fell with sadness when she said NO. This child who has so much anger, was in a cheerful mood for the first time in forever....I can only assume it was because he would be getting out of a sitch where his dad disrespects his mom...and therefore he does too just to make his dad happy with him.....?

Hate, just hate what it does to the kids....

Last edited by kissak; 05/12/10 03:48 PM.
Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10