M&H; For 4 years it has been up and down. Not all bad. I would not live through it again, but on the other side of it (losing my mother, brother, personal illness and beating death of a friend- on TOP of my H's demands) I am still standing.
Yes, he is depressed. BOC it is my fault, doncha know.
He started IC yesterday, I don't know who with- I have a hope that it is to address why he does some of the things he does. Not just to beotch about his "abusive wife".
Last time he had a "Dr. Feelgood" who validated EVERY behavior he exhibited (believe you me, he does not need anyone else giving him excuses) or so he said - <that she validated his reasons.>
I can only hope this time it goes better.
Know what I just figured out? I had a melt down yesterday, and I did not pitch back one bad name. Not one at all. It didn't even cross my mind.
