No, I don't like that idea of leaving them there... It isn't sending the right message, its just hurt and spite speaking there.
I would start packing them and I would talk to a lawyer about how much control you can have over the primary residence... I assume its in both your names right now so legally she may be entitled to a key.
Then again, you also said infidelity is a criminal act so... She may not want to push it...
But yes Ken, get your balls out of your wife's purse and use them for someting constructive... She's cooknig them up for breakfast right now...
You don't ASK her to leave, you talk to a lawyer and use EVERYTHING YOU HAVE to GET HER TO CHOOSE to leave...
Pack her things and put them outside... start packing her things... Stop waiting for HER to do everything... ACT
