Yes, I agree with Forrest--that interaction still proably had "digging" all over it. If you think it, they will smell it.
yeah. this is where i need to really hold back. it's hard to hide the look on my face. this would be the hardest 180 to do. the problem isn't really my physical appearance. the problem is in my attitude because i hold him responsible (in a condescending and mean way) when his actions don't match his words.
i can certainly see how i was not a good person. i guess i was trying to teach him integrity. do as you say. don't say one thing and then do another.
